..that should be the title of every gay mans life. that is if we could title our lives, but whose to say that we can't. i realize my blog has been rather whiney but, why should i blog about something that isnt accurate, or blog about lies?
Being gay is so hard, its hard to gain acceptance first of all not only from your peers and community, but your family and society as a whole. secondly finding the right person seems to suck lately. im not too sure i understand why every guy ends up being the same. they start out hopeful and caring but they prove me wrong within days. are my standards too high? is it something i am doing?
i am just so upset all the time, i do need to be with someone to be happy, when your life lacks so little purpose and enjoyment, and all you depend on is having someone to make you happy although you do need to make yourself happy first, then somethings wrong.
we all just need to be loved right
why not me?
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Only you can make yourself happy--you have to turn more positive about life and those around you--being negative won't/doesn't attract people.
Being a teenager and being gay is not easy unless you can accept yourself first--I came out when I was 13 and never looked back--nor have I ever regretted it--people either accpet me for who I am or they miss out on knowing a great guy.
It can be tough being single. We always see the pleasentness of having someone special there for us and not having to worry about finding them. It is easy for us to say not to worry. I hated it when people used to tell me that same thing because it really isn't a comfort. But, now that time has gone by, I see that it is right.
AJ
dont worry is such a open ended statement, you take it as you will
Weston. AJ is our official worrier--he does enough worrying for everyone so relax and stop worrying!!
good to know, i joined greasy by the way
Yes. stick to greasy. Look! You are too young to be seeking a permanent lover -- your character, likes, dislikes and so on are not fixed. you have a great deal to learn and see, and do. the way to do this is to do things that interest you. you like playing music? join a group that plays stuff you like. go to places you like, and by doing what you like you will meet others who like the same things. Don't have a picture of the person you want to 'marry'... be open and prepared for surprises. live life selfishly and to the full until about the age of 24-25 when you really know who you are, what you value and so on, you will meet the man of your dreams... at least, that's how it worked for me, and 42 years later we're still in love... patience, young man. If you want an interesting person to love you, make sure you are both interesting and lovable. see you on Greasy.
Hi,this is Fredo.Friend of all there.
Martin can be a very big help to you.
I am normally not on this site,mostly on greasy.
Hope to see you there soon.Fredo
I know how you feel mate. Dont hesitate to talk about it, it helps. So does writing here. See you at greasy i hope too. Robin xx
Hard to say if your standards are too high or not. Best thing to do is look at each of those standards individually and start to figure out if it is a valid standard...meaning...something you really need to have or deal breakers. Like abuse...I will NOT deal with abuse...that is a deal breaker for me. Then you have messy people....I don't like to live in a messy house and my husband is a tornado whenever he walks into a room..however it is not a deal breaker and I have to learn to work through that myself cause it is my issue. Hope that makes sense. Aloha