I have boy drama, and the drama is I am meeting too many. I start talking to someone, sometimes i start to like them, sometimes I don't but I know that they like me so I feel bad. Well right now I kind of have a toss up between three guys and it is so frustrating, it is not a gift by any means. let me explain about each one.
Matt:
Matt is 20 years old, soon to be 21, and he goes to Augustana University which is near Indiana, which actually is not that far. He can be a really good guy, but he makes me feel so guilty all the time because I am not there with him or I can't be there to help him when he needs me. He frustrates me because when he is upset about soemthign he doesnt talk about it, he drinks wine, gets drunk then acts like an idiot to me. also, we fight alot we havent spoken in two days because he told me i was "starting shit" and we fought now thats that the end.
Anthony:
Anthony is 18, lives in Downers Grove, which is about an hour and 15 mins away from me, he isnt the most attractive guy in the world but hes sweet and likes video games! and has a life goal which i like alot. the thing is though, on friday we were going to hang out, so i was about to leave and he bailed on me at the last minute without much reasoning, and that really got to me for some reason, so lately im not sure what i should feel about him hes pretty insecure but crazy about me.
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Josh:
I actually just met Josh hes 18, i love all his physical characteristics and his personality, emotions, and so on. he lives in Indiana, (not that far) he is such a good guy and after just meeting him i was able to have a heart to heart talk with him about our families and such, hes so easy to talk to and very sweet.
im in trouble arent i?
suggestions?
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hey, you posted on my blog. thanks, that was really nice of you. and about your conflict,yeah you really have one ! i would forget about the first 2. they sound like jerks. the last one sounds nice. focus on him right now. but you don't have to listen to me. hope it works out!
thanks hun, i really appreciate the comment back and your input
Trust me--enjoy all of it because there will be days ahead when you will wonder where all the guys are--it happens to all of us!
You don't have to take garbage from anyone--your young, handsome and through your writing seem intelligent--so enjoy each one for who they are and don't concentrate on just one.
good plan
the first two seem to be clingy and short term, see what this new guy has in store, he sounds intriguing!
ahh yeah he is but i dont know he seems a little over me but we will see!
LOL wish i could give you some suggestions but am fresh out here. I know relationships are not easy and you maybe on the road awhile before you meet the right one or even a good one. Took me several years until I met my husband. We met in Oct 2003, started dating Nov 2003, moved together and moved in together to Hawai'i May 2004, and then got married May 2005. Good luck my friend.